Usah bersedih..bersabarlah sayang…

Condolence to Amal and family..
Genap tahun baru hijrah..after Friday prayer..
I’d received a call which made me speechless for a while..
Knowing the family for years..and know the pain and suffering they have been through lately made me think how I could ease the burden in her heart..maybe I could not do much..but I wanted to be there with her at least for a while..just to let her know that I am here..u have the shoulder to cry on..

She looked quite ok when we saw her at the door..but later..cried when they brought him to the van..
I did not even shed a tear when my beloved grandma passed away last March..
But when I hugged her that day..she cried hard and sobbed achingly..I could not bear to see her like this..I could feel her pain and her sorrow..I couldn’t hold my tears..and could not say a word to her..I just hugged her tight…

We met her mother before we go back..
Again..we cried when she hugged me… 

Be strong my dear…
It was his time to go there..our time will follow..
We could only pray for him..
But u have to be strong..u have your family to look after..
They’ll be stronger when they have someone stronger like u to move on..

Selamat Tahun Baru!

Sorry semua..tetiba I terlupa nak wish Happy New year! hehe..

Seelok-eloknya..berpuasala pada 9 dan 10 Muharam > kelebihan : Allah ampunkan dosa setahun yg lepas..(dosa kecik jer tau!)
Semoga tahun baru ini membawa berkat dan rahmat utk semua..amin..

Cake!

Selalunya aku ni cerewet sikit bab makan kek coklat..kalau x kena rasa dgn tekak mesti x beli dah..
rasanya mungkin sebab dari kecik dah biasa makan kek yg mama buat..
bila dah masuk skolah menengah ni, selalunya kami akan start buat kek sendiri..even kuih raya pun kena buat sendiri tiap2 tahun sbb mama busy dgn tempahan baju kurung raya..so,dari sekolah dah mula ler bermain dgn oven dan tepung2..rasanya dah bertahun mama x buat kuih raya..

for me, i like my mom’s choc cake recipe so much..bila dah keje n ada oven kecik sendiri ni..rajin la jugak buat kek bawa gi opis..mostly my officemates suke jer makan..makan free la katakan even masa mula2 kenal hubs dulu pun dia pernah order satu..pastu bawa bekal gi opis but makan sorok2 sbb xnak opismate minta..hehe..kedekut giler..
tapi, i bake the cake only..without the topping ya..belum master bab topping..rasanya sbb kurang minat sikit kot nak buat..kalau makan suka jer..hehe

baru2 ni ada la officemate order kek satu nak bawa blk kg..ada kenduri..kebetulan masa gi beli bahan jumpa topping ready made ni..patut letak kat tengah..bukan on top sbb dia pekat sgt..macam nuttella..but i like it..sedap sgt topping tu..manis la sikit..makan cecah dgn roti pun sedap..nantila kena rajinkan diri belajar wat topping lak..

siap dibakar

with the topping

Another favourite question..

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“Dah berisi ke belum?”
haha..i’ll reply…”lemak banyakler…” sambil tersengih macam kerang busuk..

*currently both of us are planning not to have any baby until end of next year maybe..this is not mean that we don’t want any children..but we have other reason..hubs most probably need to attend training for 6 months..i’ll be alone..huhu…but..if ada rezeki awal..kami terima dgn hati yg terbuka

don’t worry…i did not take any pills..hope by the time when we are ready, everything will be ok..jgn ada masalah sudah..

Living With the In Laws

Did anybody ever ask u how is your married life?
Of coz this question is common for newly wed.
Yes, it happened to me too..
Sometimes people will make surprised face when I told them that currently I am living with my parents in laws (PIL)..
“Owhh..how’s life with living with them?” the next question will pop out..

I believe that most of us have the negative mentality when talking about living with PIL, I was one among of them..
Ya la..thinking about our privacy, our way of managing/rules the house/household..etc.. made us think narrow-minded and negative..Mujur b4 kawen mentally prepared..so, don’t bother much staying with them..

But now..I have started thinking different way..more positive..

My PIL both are very nice people..they really take good care about me..very soft spoken..most of their sons & daughters are like them..I am truly touched by their kindness..
Even if we are planning to buy our own house, I would say that I would bring them along with us at our new home..x sampai hati rasanya nak tinggal org tua kita berdua jer kat umah..mesti sunyi kan..rasa macam paham jer perasaan mereka..all they need is just a friend to chat with them..
One more thing, not all people have the opportunity to take care of their parents when they are still alive..walaupun merekalah yg membesarkan dan menjaga kita dari kecil, x semua berpeluang membalas jasa mereka..ada juga yg anak2 ni semua willing nak jaga mereka, but only them to decide which son/daughter that they prefer to stay with..anak ini lah yg paling beruntung..sejuk perut ibu mengandung 

Anyway..this is my point of view..others might think differently..

Eiduladha

Happy Eiduladha to all..i know it is quite late to wish but better late than never rite?
This year was my 1st time celebrating eiduladha as a wife..at Klang..
However…I felt quite sad as I could not celebrate my mom’s bday which was on the eid…
Happy Birthday mama..wish u all the happiness in your life..I love u so much..

I thought I did not give her any present yet, so I said I am so sorry did not buy her any..Then she told me that I’ve already given, see..she remembers but I’m not..
I asked her what did I gave her..She answered the comforter cover…ahhaa..now I remember..hehe..then I said, “see mama..itu tandanya bagi dgn ikhlas..x harapkan sebarang balasan..sampai terlupa..haha…” she laughed at me..

Hubs n I took 1 day leave before the Eid..but we were only at home in the evening..what a long day..
And I were rushing to bake choc cake, masak kuah laksa and bake a cheese cake later…I was so tired..sleep around 1am. Thanks a lot to MIL who help me with the preparation..

Early in the morning, Kak Ngah arrived after solat hari raya with her ayam masak kicap, nasi impit with kuah lodeh..while MIL prepare ayam masak merah..ada nasi impit with kuah kacang (order jer)..later kak Cik arrived with her hubs n little Arman bawa rendang ayam her MIL masak..After Friday prayer..Kak Siti bawak her rice cooker with nasi tomato inside as well as her dalca, ayam panggang, choc muffin n sponge cheese cake..haha.. plenty of food to eat..later in the evening..makan laksa pulak..khas penang punya dgn cucuq udang..tapi kuah laksa tu ceroi (cair) sket sbb I x reti agak nak pakai ikan byk mana..

All of them went back around 8pm..around 9.30pm, BIL,his family & his nieces arrived from Terengganu..terus hidang nasi & cake to them..they were too full to eat much that nite..but I told his nieces that the cakes are available only at this house..kat Terengganu x dak..haha..suddenly my biras told her nieces, kek makcik aida ni sedap..baik rasa..I am flattered with the compliment..hihi..
They went back to their home at Klang around 11pm..what a busy day..

Puas hati as my cakes sgt laku..the children and the parents also like both cakes..sampai minta resepi..and masing2 tapau sorang sikit..

Sat and Sun was very2 relaxing day..melepak kat umah xyah sebok masak..sbb balance makanan byk..sampai malas nak buat apa2 pun..but I ended up last evening baked some choc muffin..(choc cake abis hubs clearkan..that is why dia makin bulat kot )

Sheefa & Arfan Wedding

Last Friday, after came back from Air Keroh we directly check in at Hilton PJ.
I booked earlier as i know we gonna be late..arrived there around 6pm.
Sempatler nak rest n bersiap..mujur hubs bawa my belongings yg dah pack awal2..
Around 8++pm..go down to the ballroom..but most of the tables near my relatives were full.
Dok belakang pun x pa..
Some of the photos..layan..i xder flash…amek jer la walaupun ada yg gelap..

Uncle Zahar, Zati, Cicik n Kak Salniah

Entrance

Sheefa n hubs, Arfan.

Walkway

Lovely bouquet

Choffles sugar box with a piece of cake inside

Uncle n Aunty

Cousin

me n hubs

Kak Zalina, Kak Salniah, Aunty Ros, Uncle Hassan

walkway bouquet

The gentlemen

hubs n abg azzad

Salam tetamu yg nak pulang

Uncle Hassan n Aunty Ros

Dgn puan majlis

Simple n nice pelamin..i like it

Guest book

Gift for guest, beryls choc n a piece of cake in sugar box

at the middle of the ceiling

Teringat masa kenduri sendiri ker?

Arrival

Menu for tonite

Melaram sket

Congratulations to Sheefa & Arfan..
Semoga berbahagia selalu..

Workshop@Air Keroh

3 Hari kat sana..agak pack discussion sampai malam..appreciate them whom fully commited making this info gathering a success yet completed..
Sian dear hubs kena tinggal..n the wife enjoy! hehe..btw..dear wife x dpt tido lena..abis sakit badan tilam x best..spring macam nak cucuk badan jer..huhu..
On da way balik I sempat singgah Nilai 3 beli tikar n kain

Some of the pics..layann…

Langau

Palm fruit

Tea break

Flower

Pandang apa tu?

Tekun

Masalah?

Contoh borang

Opening

Welcoming speech

Pearl of Orient

Last month i had an outstation to Penang..So, we took the opportunity jalan2 around Penang Hill,
pekena nasi kandaq & cucuq udang..
Actually teringin nak naik jambatan gantung kat Penang Hill..but under renovation lak..the last
time I’ve been there when i was 13/14 yrs old..dah lebih 10 thn rupanya x jejak kaki ke Bkt Bendera ni..

baru sampai

view a bit blurr..kabus ker jerebu?

cable car going down in the tunnel

nice plant

port wajib

going up

going back

snakes show at Penang Hill

down the hill

lunch @Hameediah

cucur udang kat bazar

Happy 100 Days!

We’ve been married for 100 days last Sunday!
Happy 100 days anni my dear..
Thanks for being such a wonderful hubs.. I mean it..
Sorry for making both us down with fever on our 100th day..hihi..